Would you like to successfully get to know a gay man or woman? The whole thing is relatively easy if you know how to proceed. However, many make mistakes right from the start, which is why you will not be successful in finding a gay partner. In this guide, we’ll tell you the most important things and show you how to successfully find a gay partner.
This is how you can become successful in gay online dating
In order to find your dream partner online, it is above all important that you are open to getting to know new people. It almost goes without saying that you will not be successful or find a partner if you do not make contact and show no interest. Therefore, approach other members, answer messages that are sent to you, ask questions and make an effort to get into conversation with other members.
We would also like to encourage you to take the initiative and write directly to profiles that you like.
The greater the chances of finding your match. In the worst case, you won’t get an answer and so what. Online dating is so popular precisely because you don’t risk losing face in the same way as in the physical world.
If you cannot meet the above or if you are not open to meeting new people and do not want to take any initiative, there is no point in registering with a dating site. The whole point is getting to know other singles and finding a partner, a flirt or new friends.
In order to achieve this, it is advisable to fill out your profile completely and to make an effort. For example, would you write a profile without a picture or with a boring, meaningless profile text? Try to stand out from your competitors, for example with an unusual profile picture or a funny profile text. There is great competition for attention on the Internet.
Of course, you should never lie and impersonate someone else or present yourself more beautiful, sporty or successful than you really are, because the truth will catch up with you on your first date at the latest. However, it is perfectly fine, and even recommended, to highlight your best traits and qualities. Among other things, the profile text is an excellent tool for this.
This should of course be about you and reflect your personality, values and interests. Instead of simply describing them, you should try to convey your personality (also) stylistically if possible. Show it, don’t tell it!
Everyone can write that they are funny, smart or have a lot of experience in a particular area. But it’s much more convincing when you can show it.
For example, if you are very humorous and entertaining, show it through puns, jokes, and creative sentences. If you are loving and caring, then show this through your behavior and actions on the dating site.
We can’t get around the profile picture either. It’s no secret that your profile picture is very important in how many and which messages and replies you will receive. Tinder is a prime example of how important looks are at the beginning of a relationship.
If you swipe right or left on Flirteezy, this is usually only related to a superficial assessment of the appearance. If there is any profile text at all, nine out of ten times you only read it through if you are not sure whether the person in the picture is beautiful enough.
A good profile picture is therefore important. Choose a good quality picture that highlights your most beautiful features, reflects your personality and is similar to you at the same time. A big smile inspires confidence and is almost always well received.
We strongly advise against putting edited pictures on top of which your friends would not recognize you right away. Your date will only feel misled if you meet in the real world and you don’t look like the one in your picture.
Likewise, he or she will likely reject you; not because you visually don’t meet his / her criteria, but rather because you have misled him / her. Nobody likes to be fooled.
After all, your date should love to fall in love with you and your personality and not with a glossy picture.
You should also update your dating profile from time to time and keep potential partners up to date. They will surely want to know if, for example, you get a new job, change your place of residence or plan a trip around the world.
Also change your profile picture every now and then. An occasional update of the profile picture generates new activity and ensures that your picture remains up-to-date or that any dates will not be disappointed when you finally meet for coffee and you no longer look like you did three years ago.
Have fun and good luck finding a partner!